Me and Mr J

Me and Mr J

How did I get it?:
Netgalley- many thanks to Egmont


Fifteen-year-old Lara finds her soulmate. There’s just one problem – he’s her teacher.

Lara’s life has changed radically since her father lost his job. As the eldest, Lara tries to keep upbeat, and the one outlet for all her problems is her diary where she can be open about how dire everything is at home, and worse, the fact that she’s being horrifically bullied at school.


This is going to be a really hard book to review because of personal connection to the teaching profession. However, it kept me reading. I think it’s difficult going into a book like this being a trainee teacher. My interest in this book was how it was going to be explored as student/teacher inappropriate relationships do happen. Lara feels MUCH younger than fifteen and it just all felt wrong to me.

Me and Mr J centres around bullying and student/teacher relationships. I found the bullying aspects of the book harrowing, but well written. They made me feel uncomfortable which much of the book did, if I’m entirely honest. I kept reading though. Something about this book kept me reading more despite my reservations.

Lara is an interesting character. As I mentioned, she comes across as younger than she actually is. Lara’s story is told in diary entries which I always enjoy reading. I think it helped the teenage voice really come through. I feel like her naivety also came through. She never really understood the consequences of her actions. Rachel McIntyre has certainly written a thought provoking read about some deep issues like bullying and relationships with authoritative figures.

So whilst the subject matter was intense, it was well written and explored many issues. I think many readers will enjoy this book!

Would I recommend it?:
Yes! I do recommend it, as I think it is my personal issues with the book from a trainee teacher perspective that put me off this book. I think others would very much enjoy it.

Tough subject matter but an engrossing read!


10 thoughts on “Me and Mr J

  1. I am one of those weird readers that love the “forbidden” type books because I am always curious on how an author with handle the situation. Ya know? The fact that the Lara feels younger than 15 is slightly concerning though.

  2. I really really really want to read this book! Having already been a teacher and also a personal tutor, I am really looking forward to the release date 🙂

  3. This sounds rough. I love books written in diary format… but a teacher and a 15 yr old??? that’s a little too much for me. There’s a book coming out this year called Even When You Lie To Me by Jessica Alcott that I am also on the fence about reading. I’m kind of a stickler when it comes to underage boys and girls and innapropriate relationships. Except Love and Other Perishable Items… that one I could work with.

    • It was tough to read given the profession that I’m going into. It is well written though, I would just warn that it is a contentious subject. The teacher in question is a young teacher, not saying that excuses it of course. A relationship with a student is wrong no matter what the age!

  4. I’m curious — does the book portray the teacher/student relationship as a positive thing? I think I’d have a hard time reading it, if that’s the case. Thank you for a thoughtful review!

    • Thanks Lisa. The relationship does have consequences for the teacher and that’s shown near the end of the book, but I don’t really feel like the main character really understood the enormity of what she had done!

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